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Financial Domination
Financial domination (sometimes referred to as “FinDom” or “FinDoming”) is a type of BDSM that involves using real money when it comes to the consensual power exchange dynamic. It is not an escort. It is not a sugar relationship (at least what people typically think of when it comes to “Sugar baby” and “Sugar Daddy”). It is not an OnlyFans e-girl or Fansly e-girl.
It involves a submissive consensually giving so much money (however much is agreed upon between the Dominant and the submissive) to their Dominant. While this is a massive over simplification of this type of power dynamic, it is the easiest way to describe it to those who have never learned about it. BDSM, on its own, is built on trust, honesty, communication, and consent. Any and all partners involved can retract consent at any point in the relationship.
Some might ask why a submissive might enjoy this kind of dynamic. Some find it exhilarating. Some love the daredevil aspect of it (some FinDomming can involve taking control of your submissive’s computer via applications like TeamViewer and similar). Some find it dehumanizing and/or humiliating, but this just adds to the thrill to them. The Dominant might enjoy this type of power dynamic because of the power and responsibility that is put into their lap with this kind of dynamic.
